Kuyabonakala ukuba intombazana iyakuthanda ukukhwela idick enkulu yesithandwa sayo, ibone indlela ehamba ngayo, kwaye nangona kunjalo, iyayinyathela, hayi kuyo, nangona yenza umehluko, kuba utshintsho lweendawo luyakwenza. Ungatshintshi isamba, ngakumbi kumbandela onje. Ngokucacileyo bangene eluzukweni, kwaye bobabini bafumana ulonwabo olungeyonyani, kubonakala kum, kwaye ndicinga ukuba ukuphindaphinda akukude.
Hayi indlela olunika umdla ngayo ulwalamano abanalo umzalwana nodade, bengenantloni okanye nantoni na, bejonga ukuba bayenze kubani ecaleni kwakhe. Kodwa intsabelo kanina yayihlekisa.